Thursday, March 21, 2013

“Evoking Love” p:14


AyinBase / Ayin Beis with R' Paltiel ThursdayNight10 Nissan 5773 

Page 14
At middle of the second paragraph of the page – (line begins: bekiruv...') For text, click: Here.

Looking at the principle of ratzu/run and shuv/return, we see the Rebbe says the run is love and the return is awe/fear.

Love is the result of special attention and mutual benefit. Love is awoken in the recipient.

The love is aroused and developed by affection and attention.

We are talking about a real soul love, without any political calculations of receiving benefit. We are talking about a pure human response. And the one who initiates the love is also doing it without calculation. The closeness that he shows is both bringing closeness and inspiration.


This relates in a quality called ahava/love.

This is obviously different from the 'love' in 'I love icecream'. This needs to be properly identified, especially due to the coarseness of the world in which we live.

If we conceive of 2 people as being inherently distinct, it is like thinking of one rock bumping up against another. There is the thought of 'what's in it for me', and unfortunately this is a prevalent view.

This view is a total lie. It is not what happens among human beings. They live like human beings and see things this way. They don't react, they live. The basis for human perception is that there is a First Being.

The emotions of a human being is reflective of the human mind!

We have great emphasis of the faculties of mind. And then there is enormous focus on good character traits, because it is the proof of the knowledge of the mind permeating the entire being.

We want to understand love the way chassidus means it. Real love is only possible if he realizes that he himself is not a 'stand alone entity' but is rather is part of the Godly truth... and this will open his heart to real love for God and others.

To love another, the other person has to be real. Not that I am getting some benefit. He is real because there is the Godly truth that brings him into being. This is the basis for the truth of love in the level of emotion.

Handling the emotions is more difficult than working at the level of mind/sechel.

The mentor/mashpia has to descend and experience the student's position. He has to experience what it is like to have no concept of this particular sechel/outlook.

And then he says, 'okay, let's look at this together'. This is called 'hislabshut' – enclothement.

Godliness has come down and enclothed itself in the world and creations to enliven them... Godliness provides the vitatlity to lifeless bodies. It descends and relates to lifelessness and brings life to them!





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