AyinBase / Ayin Beis with R' Paltiel ThursdayNight10
Nissan 5773
Page 14
At
middle of the second paragraph of the page –
(line
begins: bekiruv...') For text, click: Here.
Looking at the
principle of ratzu/run and shuv/return, we see the Rebbe says the run
is love and the return is awe/fear.
Love is the result of
special attention and mutual benefit. Love is awoken in the
recipient.
The love is aroused
and developed by affection and attention.
We are talking about
a real soul love, without any political calculations of receiving
benefit. We are talking about a pure human response. And the one
who initiates the love is also doing it without calculation. The
closeness that he shows is both bringing closeness and inspiration.
This relates in a
quality called ahava/love.
This is obviously
different from the 'love' in 'I love icecream'. This needs
to be properly identified, especially due to the coarseness of the
world in which we live.
If we conceive of 2
people as being inherently distinct, it is like thinking of one rock
bumping up against another. There is the thought of 'what's in it
for me', and unfortunately this is a prevalent view.
This view is a total
lie. It is not what happens among human beings. They live like
human beings and see things this way. They don't react, they live.
The basis for human perception is that there is a First Being.
The emotions of a
human being is reflective of the human mind!
We have great
emphasis of the faculties of mind. And then there is enormous focus
on good character traits, because it is the proof of the knowledge of
the mind permeating the entire being.
We want to understand
love the way chassidus means it. Real love is only possible if he
realizes that he himself is not a 'stand alone entity' but is rather
is part of the Godly truth... and this will open his heart to real
love for God and others.
To love another, the
other person has to be real. Not that I am getting some benefit. He
is real because there is the Godly truth that brings him into being.
This is the basis for the truth of love in the level of emotion.
Handling the emotions
is more difficult than working at the level of mind/sechel.
The mentor/mashpia
has to descend and experience the student's position. He has to
experience what it is like to have no concept of this particular
sechel/outlook.
And then he says,
'okay, let's look at this together'. This is called 'hislabshut' –
enclothement.
Godliness has come
down and enclothed itself in the world and creations to enliven
them... Godliness provides the vitatlity to lifeless bodies. It
descends and relates to lifelessness and brings life to them!
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